It’s that time of year that everyone dreads…tax season! However, this year when I was working on our tax return I found something very unexpected, and encouraging. We had gotten by on less than $30,000 last year! Except that was the thing — we didn’t just get by, we lived well! We ate real food, we did fun things with the kids, and had all of our needs met (and then some!) We made a yearly budget, stuck with it, and it worked…even better than we predicted!
Last year both my husband and I started businesses — we had planned for this the previous year by building our savings and making changes to our spending habits. We had expected our income for 2015 to be lower than usual and we knew this would be temporary, but seeing the actual number was a shock — it was lower than I would have guessed!
Interestingly, we never felt deprived and we didn’t even dip into our savings (aside from planned business start-up costs). We had lived on a much lower income than we had planned for, and we never even noticed until we started crunching numbers at tax time!
So how did we do it?
Cash-only for purchases
First, we implemented a cash-only system for purchases other than monthly bills. Each week we set aside a certain amount of cash for groceries, toiletries, and extras. This provides a tangible “limit” because you can actually see exactly how much money you have at your disposal for the week. Anything leftover was rolled into next week’s budget.
It sounds simple, and it is! (That’s the beauty of it!) You’re much less likely to overspend when you have money in hand and that’s it. If you’re really worried about willpower (and I totally get it…Target is my danger zone!) then don’t take any backup payment methods with you. I also used rebate apps like Ibotta to earn cash back each time I went shopping for groceries or household items.
Cook your own meals (at every meal!)
Meal-planning alone saved us over $1400 a month and was a crucial part of a budget that worked. Plus, it’s much healthier than restaurant food or take-out! Eating real food has saved us a TON of money and it also helped me lose the baby weight! (Bonus!!)
I cannot recommend this enough — meal planning is easy to do (actually, it’s easier than just “winging it”) and the results were a game-changer for us. My first ebook details step-by-step what we did so you can implement this system in your own life and start saving right away.
Sleep on it!
Impulse purchases can drain your bank account quicker than just about anything else! When I see a gorgeous pair of shoes or an awesome sale at my favorite store, I don’t buy right away. Instead, I wait until the next day and then ask myself if I really need that item I was eyeing the day before. Chances are, the initial excitement has worn off and I don’t really care as much as I thought.
Don’t let alcohol sneak into your budget
My husband and I aren’t big drinkers (actually he doesn’t drink at all these days), but I do occasionally enjoy a glass of wine and I know a lot you probably do too! Before we had our youngest, my husband and I used to go out a few times a month with friends to the movies or for drinks. We live in a big city, so a specialty cocktail or nice glass of wine can easily set you back $10 (or more…yikes!) It’s easy to see how that could add up!
Instead of going out and paying premium prices, we periodically invite our friends to our home instead. Buying a bottle or two of wine and cooking our own bites (see above) saves SO much money! If everyone takes turns hosting, then everyone saves! Alcohol and entertaining are just a tiny blip on our budget, but we still have fun!
Skip the gym
And by that I mean, “skip the monthly gym membership fees!” Both my husband and I work out daily at home and have gotten awesome results. It’s not important where you workout and you don’t need fancy equipment. What matters most is consistency and just doing it!
Our favorite workout routine Body Beast is a weight-lifting program and only requires a few sets of free weights. Instead of paying a steep fee every month for a gym membership you may or may not use, you can pay a one-time purchase price of a home program and then you’re all set!
Weight-lifting was the final piece of the puzzle for me in losing my baby belly — it won’t make you “bulk up,” but it will make you burn more calories all day long (muscle requires more calories to maintain itself!) If that’s not your thing, a power yoga routine will also give you amazing results and even brisk walking (pushing a stroller or carrying hand weights) will get the job done!
Pay bills on time…every time!
When my husband and I got married, some of the bills were in his name, so I let him handle them. Except that he doesn’t have the best memory for deadlines and isn’t super organized. I noticed that some of those bills were being paid late and we were getting stuck with a $10 late fee! (A total waste of money!!)
Since I am by nature a more organized person, I took over responsibility for paying all the bills. I put the dates in my daily planner just in case, though I have all of the due date memorized. (One of my blessings…or is it a curse that I think about bills that much?) If it makes it easier for you, automate your bill payments so you can’t forget.
Lower your energy cost
We live in Texas, and energy bills during the summer can be out of this world (in a bad way!) Even small changes, like setting the thermostat one degree higher can make a big difference to the bottom line. If you live in a deregulated state, call your electric company and ask for a lower rate. Chances are they will oblige to keep your business. If not, go elsewhere!
Make your own coffee
When I worked full time outside the home, I purchased a premium coffee every day. Sometimes twice a day! It got me out of the office for a few minutes and gave me something to savor throughout the long workdays. However, when I decided to quit my job and stay home with the girls, I switched to making my own. My Nespresso machine might have been a bit of an initial investment, but each cup of coffee I make at home costs less than half of what my daily Starbucks used to. I don’t totally deprive myself — I still treat myself occasionally — but maybe once a week instead of every day. The savings is so worth it! (And I love my Nespresso just as much!)
Make clothes last longer
Over-washing and washing in hot water can wear your clothes out faster. I wash all of my clothes in cold water on the delicate cycle. (Cold water saves a lot of money in energy costs too!) The only things I use warm water for are whites or heavily soiled items (like the baby bibs). I also re-wear items that aren’t dirty or I didn’t wear for very long, like jackets and sweaters.
I do have to admit that my mother in law buys our diapers and toilet paper — it might sound like a funny thing to do, but it’s her “thing.” She enjoys providing these things for our family and actually gets upset if I buy them on my own. I was raised to be very financially independent, so at first it was odd to me to accept what I initially saw as “handouts.” But I learned to be gracious and say “thank you” when someone does something nice for you. My mother in law truly wants to do this, so I accept her generosity and I am thankful for it.
Those are some of the main parts of our yearly budget that saved us a lot of money, while still allowing us to live comfortably AND maintain our savings!
Read more about how we saved $10,000 in one year with these surprisingly simple ways to build your bank account fast!
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